If you have a baby with colic, you are bound to feel isolated, stressed and helpless to do anything that helps your baby. I know you do. You see, I am a colic veteran. In March of '97, I was blessed with a beautiful baby girl who was very colicky until she was 6 months old. Six months of endless nights of screaming and tears for all involved.
About three years later, I was once again blessed with a wonderful child and he decided to follow in his sister's footsteps. He was a colicky as well.
It is my hope to provide the stressed and helpless moms and dads out there dealing with colic, a place to receive support and understanding for one of the most trying times in your and your baby's relationship.
When you have a colicky baby, the feelings you have will leave you feeling inadequate as a parent. You are not to blame for your baby's inability to calm down. You are not a bad parent because you can not stop the crying. Even the "I wish I never had this baby" thoughts are totally understandable and normal. Know that you are doing the best you can to cope. Coming to this site will hopefully reassure you that what you are doing and feeling are okay in the face of immense stress.
You are in my thoughts,
Vickie
WebMom and Survivor